Do you see that guy shaking his fist at the sky and cursing his father?   That was me.  My mantra was “You no good s.o.b.!”

 You see, my father grew addicted to gambling.  Unbeknown to me.  I lived overseas.  Phone calls cost $100, so we did not talk much.  And when we did, he neglected to tell me he had blown his money on the horses.

 Or that he had blown my mother’s inheritance.  And wagered away the mortgage money.

 Then he killed himself.  He deserted my mother, on the edge of Alzheimers.  Deserted my brother, still in high school.

 His debts trapped me and my wife.  We had to dump our plans and dreams and take over his country hotel.  Which had deteriorated into a saloon.

 We had three young kids.  We were forced to try to rescue his business, pay his debts, care for my mother, care for my brother.  I felt abandoned by him.  Whenever the agonies of it all got to me out would come the raised fist.  “You no good!”

 So many years ago.

 I often talk to young prisoners about how they can prosper. They always ask: “Are you rich?  What kind of big car do you drive?  Do you live in a big house, like a mansion?”

 Last week, one of them stunned me.  He asked about my father.  So I told them what I have just related to you.  I shook my fist and sneered “You rotten s.o.b.!”