Dear Maggie,

Do you have advice on how to bring the spark back to a 16-year marriage? I miss the days when just my husband walking into the room would make my heart flutter and I’m sure the same is true with him. We still love each other very much, so that’s not a problem. I feel like we are in a rut. He comes home from work, we eat supper, he reads the paper and I do dishes. Then we both watch TV in different rooms because of different viewing pleasures. It’s the same every night. Can you give me some ideas on how to bring a spark back? Thanks.

Signed,

Spark-Seeker

Dear Seeker,