Dear Maggie,

First of all, I love your books!

As for my problem ... A few years ago, my husband and I reconciled after a three-year split. We’ve been happy – for the most part – and we’re now expecting our second baby.

During our time apart, at some point a really good female friend of his whom he’s known for years admitted to him she was in love with him. Mind you, this woman is married and had three kids at the time – now she has five. She even told her own husband (poor guy) how she felt about mine during a fight they were having. Since it all blew up, she is always sending my husband lovey-dovey text messages and cards and buying our son presents. She begged my husband not to get back together with me, but he did anyway. He told me all of this himself. Even though we got back together, her behavior hasn’t stopped.