Dear Maggie,

I’m in love with two women. They’re very different. One relationship is passionate and really volatile. Up and down, stormy and unpredictable. There are horrible fights sometimes—tears and screaming. But when it’s good it’s very good. I never know what to expect with her. She’s wild and fun and exciting. The other relationship is steady and dependable. There are no crazy fights, but there’s no fiery passion either. The sex is good, but pretty standard and predictable. I’d die of shock if this woman threw something at me or screamed or swore. She’s always there if I need her. I know she and I would last, could raise kids, make a home. But I love the fire and the excitement of the first woman.

What should I do? How should I chose?

Thanks for any advice!

The Man Who Loves Too Much

Dear Man,